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Saturday, 27 September 2003
Dinner and Weevils
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Joel:

We had a really nice Nigerian dinner last night. The kids did quite well overall. Austin did a great job of being polite and eating a good portion of his pounded yam, egusi stew (stew with greens, salt, oils, and other stuff that is eaten with the pounded yam), and chicken (it is an honor to be served meat). Allie was polite but didn't eat a lot until orange slices and bananas were brought out for dessert. Abbie put her hands in everything and didn't fuss. All the kids are starting to learn how to sit and listen to adult conversation, which is a vital skill here. We heard about the exciting bush medical evangelism that Dr. Ushe has been involved with for the last 10 years. It is in the mountainous remote region near Cameroon - a 14 hr rough drive from Jos. He was lead to this area through an area Fulani leader who came to Evangel hospital as a patient 10 years ago. The Fulani are an Islamic nomadic cattle herding tribe that has remained quite unreached over the last 100 years. However, Dr. Ushe's work has been blessed and fruitful. The Fulani speak neither English nor Hausa, but it may be possible for Joel or Cindy to go out on one of these outreaches in the future.

Now it's off to the market to try to buy flour and sugar. We have learned many different way to keep the weevils out of one's flour, but none of them sound appealing. However, since weevils don't sound appealing we will be experimenting with various approaches.

Posted by Kathy at 12:20 PM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:37 PM EET
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Spiritual Lessons
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of the Anthis family:

Our verse for our first month in Nigeria:

Joshua 1:9. "Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." That is the song that Austin and Allison performed (complete with hand-motions and animation) repeatedly for the customs officials in the Kano airport at 1am on the night we arrived in Nigeria. And that was just the word from the Lord that Cindy and I needed at that point, and since then as well.

Did we mention that Austin no longer has his favorite SIM baseball cap. We found out days later that Austin had given it away to a man at the Kano airport on the night that we arrived in Nigeria. When we asked him why he gave his favorite hat away, he told us "the man asked me for it, and he said he really liked it." Hopefully, we all can remain generous with the bounty that the Lord has provided.

Posted by Kathy at 12:08 AM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:38 PM EET
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Abigail
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of the Anthis family:

Abigail is amazingly adaptable and engaging and loving. All Nigerians seem to love kids. And our blond little Abigail is a big attraction at the market and everywhere she goes. Everyone greets her, touches her hair, and wants to shake her hand and hold her. She draws the line at being held, but is great with all the rest. She just turned two and her vocabulary is rapidly expanding, so she is also learning the Hausa greeting "Sanu." She is now wearing her local Nigerian sandals, and won't leave home without "my shoouuss." She just seems to have a way of bringing a smile to the face of everyone she meets.

Learned cultural fact of the day: don't throw away any match boxes, as all stool samples must be turned into the hospital in a matchbox; and since Abby has had an ongoing intestinal disturbance for over a week, this may be "news you can use."

Posted by Kathy at 12:06 AM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:38 PM EET
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Family News
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of the Anthis family:

Austin and Allison both seem to be doing great overall. The school is wonderful and the kids love it. They had spiritual emphasis this week. The theme was "I am the salt of the earth." They talked about ways to be salt. It seemed to have had an impact as Allison even got up early one morning and made every bed in the house announcing that "she is the salt of the earth!" I hope it is a long lasting lesson. I (Cindy) filled in leading a discipleship time for the 7th grade girls at Hillcrest. We talked from Esther about how we are blessed to be a blessing. Each girl shared how they have been blessed and how that could be used to bless others. This is quite an impressive group of girls from at least 5 different countries. One already feels called to be a missionary teacher in China. Each had a good idea of how they had been blessed. Please pray for these girls, several who board at the school and are separated from their families.

Posted by Kathy at 12:02 AM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:40 PM EET
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Friday, 26 September 2003
Eating Out
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Joel:

It is now Friday afternoon, and the afternoon rains have ended. We are going out to eat tonight - this is, of course, Cindy's favorite pastime in Texas. We have been invited to dinner at the home of one of the Nigerian physicians, Dr. Paul Ushe, who works at the mission hospital. Reportedly he serves the spiciest food on the hospital compound - we'll see how it compares to Texas and Louisiana spicey.

Posted by Kathy at 11:55 PM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:42 PM EET
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Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Joel:

Abby is the most amazing kid. She is sooo happy all the time, and is a huge hit in the market with Nigerians who all want to talk to her and greet her.

Posted by Kathy at 5:22 AM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:44 PM EET
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Sunday, 21 September 2003
To market, to market. . .
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Joel. . .

We went to the market yesterday, on Saturday Sept. 20th, with the whole family. The kids wanted to see what it's like to barter. We bartered for clothes hangers, bananas, plastic chairs, and a potty seat for Abby (we had to leave the clothes hangers bc they wouldn't come down in their price). It was fun. Each day brings more confidence that we can perform the activities of daily living - but we still have a very long way to go.

We went to a Nigerian church's English service today and heard a one hour sermon on sexual purity. It was encouraging to hear, and with AIDS on the rise in Nigeria, is vitally necessary. The kids did well all things considered and held up for the 2 hr service.

Posted by Kathy at 9:06 PM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:44 PM EET
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Friday, 19 September 2003
Update on Wall and Adjusting
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Cindy from an email:

The prayers for the wall are being answered, as we studied in small group in Nehemiah. It is raining too much to do a lot every day. Hopefully it will be finished next week. We are definitely not settled yet. It is AMAZING how difficult even the simplest things are here - like getting some bread (go buy flour, borrow bread pans, spend 2 days trying to buy an oven, wait for 3 days for SIM to cut a check to the oven merchant, have someone drive you to ask the merchant who to make the check to, later find out they didn't give you the full name and the check process is on hold for another day to see if it goes through, wait for another missionary to loan you his van and a driver to pick up the oven, then bring it in the house just to find out that the wires do not have a plug and require an electrician to wire it directly into the house's 220v system, then try to connect the gas component just to find out that the butane tank on the outside of the house is empty, then borrow another driver to take you and the tank to fill it up and find out that you don't have enough $, and the SIM finance office is only open for 2 hrs for cash wd Mon am, Weds pm, and Fri am, so you're out of luck and $ for another 2 days, not to mention out of gas and without bread). This is all part of the "Anthis Family Adventure" that we are getting used to. But getting "settled" is totally different than anything I have done before in every conceivable way.

Posted by Kathy at 10:19 PM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:45 PM EET
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snakes, security, and the Sovereignty of God
Topic: Family
Posted on behalf of Cindy from an email:

We are learning daily to really believe in our hearts, and not just in our heads, that God is Sovereign. He is in control of all things (which is good, as we are in control of nothing!) Thanks to all who prayed about Joel's passport. He traveled back to Kano Sunday night and met with officials on Monday morning. Joel was initially told by the official of the Nigerian FDA that his passport had been sent on to Lagos and he would have to make the 14 hr drive to Lagos to petition for its return and may face "charges." After several hours in the office, lots of phone calls and prayers, eventually Joel was required to write a formal letter of apology for bringing medications into the country, a letter of forfeiture of all our medications which had been impounded, and one other additional letter. We have since been told by several Nigerians that this type of compulsory repentant letter writing is very common here. Joel's passport then "miraculously" made its way all the way from Lagos before our very eyes and was removed from the official's desk and given to Joel. As they say in America, it isn't over until the fat lady sings; but her tune is difficult for us to recognize here in Nigeria, and is quite delayed. While our medication was forfeited, we are thankful that we don't need to travel all the way to Lagos to get the passport. God is in control of every detail and we are grateful that we can see His hand even in the struggles. Dr. Nate Smith, a missionary to Kenya, told me last year that when opposition arises to block what the Lord has called you to do on the mission field, it can often be our response to that very opposition that is a more powerful witness for the Lord than what we had set out to accomplish. So it was with this perspective in mind, and with a miraculous God-given amount of patience (as any of you who know Joel can attest to) that Joel was able to be sincerely grateful to the official and leave on amiable terms.

Many of you were also praying that a large hole in the wall by our house would be repaired quickly. God has answered this prayer as well! One morning 2 women showed up at my door and greeted me. They spoke no English so I was not sure what they wanted. Then they began a most amazing task. Each had a bucket and they repeatedly filled their buckets and carried dirt and gravel on their heads to the site of the hole. They then carried the bricks that had been delivered one by one on their heads to the place they were needed. They sang as they worked and seemed not to tire. They spoke to Abby and to the kids playing in the yard. It seems in this culture, this kind of work is considered "women's" work. A man came later to dig a trench and lay the bricks and the wall is now about 3 feet tall. The work continues and we have learned something of the culture in the process!

Now to the exciting stuff.. On our third full day in the country, while we were unpacking we heard a scream from the woman who is helping us in our house. It seems a LARGE green snake crawled across her feet as she was coming into the house. She stopped and the snake slithered through a hole in the screen and right into the living room. Well now I was screaming! I called to Joel and he came equipped with Austin's commemorative Astros Louisville Slugger baseball bat. He killed the snake and kept it for the kids to see after school. (They thought it was great.) I later learned while talking to the hospital chaplain that these bright green snakes are "good snakes" and not poisonous. I'm not sure any snake in my living room will ever be considered a "good snake". We did take the opportunity to learn our first Hausa word "macheche" which means snake. I hope I don't have to use it too often.

The children are adjusting very well overall. Abby is a hit with everyone she meets as she is so engaging. She has picked up the words for "hello how are you", ("Sanu") in Hausa and greets people as we pass. She seems to love our new home, especially the chickens, roosters and goats that are our neighbors. Praise the Lord Allison passed her exam last week and was allowed to start first grade on Monday. Allison says that they do no work at her new school. She says they sing and play. I'm not sure this is true but she seems happy with it. Austin was welcomed with open arms by his whole third grade class that had been expecting him since the beginning of the year. He is also enjoying all the Nigerian boys that live on our compound and come to play soccer every day after school. Of course Austin has already transitioned to calling it football.

We will begin formal Hausa language classes in early October but for now are talking to people and asking for words and phrases. We are engaged in the full-time pursuit of figuring out how to live here in Jos as well. How does one barter in the market for bananas, waste baskets, and clothes hangers? Where do you get containers of butane to cook with? How do you keep your computer from getting fried when the power varies from 130 to 300 volts and is intermittent? How do you communicate with a night guard that only speaks Hausa and has a very significant hearing loss and returned his hearing aid?

Joel has been asked to see two very serious cases at the hospital. They were sent here from Niger (the country to our North), where there are no ENT surgeons in the entire country. One is a 25 year old woman with an enormous laryngeal (voice box) tumor. The other is a man with a huge tumor in his hard palate and midface. Both are very difficult cases and both patients are Muslims. Joel will be helping Dr. Bill Ardill (the general surgeon here) with both cases next week. Joel was able to pray with each patient in the name of Jesus; please pray for spiritual and physical healing for these patients whom the Lord has sent to us.

After being here only two days and still trying to figure out how to get clean water and other living essentials, Austin asked us, "Are most of the other people who live on the hospital compound Christians?" Since everyone who lives here has some connection to the Christian mission hospital, we told him "probably so." Then he immediately asked, "Then when are we going to get off the compound to tell other people about Jesus?" Wow. What focus. Pray that we will remain, like Austin, focused and impatient about this one thing: sharing Jesus with the many who do not know and have not heard.

We can not thank you enough for your prayers. We have really felt God's presence in some trying times over the last few weeks. Pray that we would seek to glorify God in all we do (even the mundane tasks of learning to live here!)

Posted by Kathy at 10:13 PM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:46 PM EET
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Wednesday, 10 September 2003
We're Here!!!!
Topic: Family
Greetings from Jos! We are finally here. Thanks to all who prayed for us on our journey. We had a smooth check in of all 39 pieces of luggage at Houston and we were off to a great start. The travel was uneventful until we reached Kano Nigeria. We arrived at 10:30pm and proceeded through immigration to claim our baggage. We were encouraged to see all 39 pieces had arrived. But we did not see the SIM person who was to meet us and we encountered the Nigerian equivalent of the DEA. As soon as they discovered we had medical equipment and supplies a decision was made to open every bag and impound all of the medical goods! We started praying and I went outside to look for our SIM person meeting us. I found him and he joined us as we helplessly had each box opened and all medicine and equipment removed. This was a 4 hour process with at least 20 curious onlookers as each of our items was held up for inspection. Joel's passport was seized and all the medication we had with us (including our personal medications) are still being held in Kano (5 hours from Jos). Praise God that all of the expensive instruments were returned to us after it became clear we would not pay a bribe. Thanks to the prayers of the saints the children were amazingly good during this 4 hour ordeal. Please pray for the release of Joel's passport. The kids start school tomorrow and we are slowly getting settled. Please also pray for our security as a large portion of the compound wall behind our house collapsed and has yet to be rebuilt. This leaves the house very exposed. We know our security is in the Lord and are thankful for your prayers on our behalf.

Posted by anthisfamily at 12:01 AM EEST
Updated: Sunday, 18 January 2004 9:47 PM EET
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